Love Is A Battlefield Videos & Discussion Guides


Episode 8: Fighting For Those Who Can't Fight For Themselves

Discussion following the sermon from 3/24/2024

"Jesus entered the Temple and began to drive out all the people buying and selling animals for sacrifice. He knocked over the tables of the money changers and the chairs of those selling doves. He said to them, 'The Scriptures declare, ‘My Temple will be called a house of prayer,' but you have turned it into a den of thieves!' The blind and the lame came to him in the Temple, and he healed them." Matthew 21:12-14


"So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless." James 2:17


 1. Find a wrong to right.

"Give justice to the poor and the orphan; uphold the rights of the oppressed and the destitute. Rescue the poor and helpless; deliver them from the grasp of evil people." Psalm 82:3-4

 2.  Find a friendless to friend.

"When Jesus came by, he looked up at Zacchaeus and called him by name. 'Zacchaeus!' he said. 'Quick, come down! I must be a guest in your home today.'" Luke 19:5

 3.  Find a burden to share.

"Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important." Galatians 6:2-3

"If you help the poor, you are lending to the LORD— and he will repay you!" Proverbs 19:17

 4.  Find a hurt to heal.

"Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results." James 5:16






Episode 7: Fighting For A Friend

Discussion following the sermon from 3/17/2024

"One day while Jesus was teaching, some Pharisees and teachers of religious law were sitting nearby. (It seemed that these men showed up from every village in all Galilee and Judea, as well as from Jerusalem.) And the Lord’s healing power was strongly with Jesus. Some men came carrying a paralyzed man on a sleeping mat. They tried to take him inside to Jesus, but they couldn’t reach him because of the crowd. So they went up to the roof and took off some tiles. Then they lowered the sick man on his mat down into the crowd, right in front of Jesus. Seeing their faith, Jesus said to the man, 'Young man, your sins are forgiven.' But the Pharisees and teachers of religious law said to themselves, 'Who does he think he is? That’s blasphemy! Only God can forgive sins!' Jesus knew what they were thinking, so he asked them, 'Why do you question this in your hearts? Is it easier to say ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or ‘Stand up and walk'? So I will prove to you that the Son of Man has the authority on earth to forgive sins.' Then Jesus turned to the paralyzed man and said, 'Stand up, pick up your mat, and go home!' And immediately, as everyone watched, the man jumped up, picked up his mat, and went home praising God. Everyone was gripped with great wonder and awe, and they praised God, exclaiming, “We have seen amazing things today!” Luke 5:17-26


Five Feelings To Fight For The Sake Of My Friend:

 1. Fight the doubts.

"What do you mean, 'If I can'?' Jesus asked. 'Anything is possible if a person believes.' The father instantly cried out, 'I do believe, but help me overcome my unbelief!'" Mark 9:23-24

 2.  Fight the prejudices.

"'Rabbi', his disciples asked him, 'why was this man born blind? Was it because of his own sins or his parents' sins?' 'It was not because of his sins or his parents' sins,' Jesus answered. 'This happened so that the power of God could be seen in him.'" John 9:2-3 

 3.  Fight the apathy and complacency.

"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." Proverbs 17:17

 4.  Fight the fear of rejection.

"For I am not ashamed of this Good News about Christ. It is the power of God at work, saving everyone who believes…" Romans 1:16

 5.  Fight the urge to give up.

"So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up." Galatians 6:9





Episode 6: Fighting For Yourself (A Call To Action)

Discussion following the sermon from 3/10/2024

"The second is equally important: Love your neighbor as yourself." Mark 12:31 

"As Pharaoh approached, the people of Israel looked up and panicked when they saw the Egyptians overtaking them. They cried out to the Lord, and they said to Moses, 'Why did you bring us out here to die in the wilderness? Weren't there enough graves for us in Egypt? What have you done to us? Why did you make us leave Egypt? We said, 'Leave us alone! Let us be slaves to the Egyptians. It's better to be a slave in Egypt than a corpse in the wilderness!' But Moses told the people, 'Don't be afraid. Just stand still and watch the Lord rescue you today. The Egyptians you see today will never be seen again. The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm. Then the Lord said to Moses, 'Why are you crying out to me? Tell the people to get moving!'" Exodus 14:10-15


The Action Plan:

 1. Seek God first.

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:33

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7

 2.  Accept God's plan.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

"For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'" Jeremiah 29:11

 3.  Get moving.

"Then the Lord said to Moses, 'Why are you crying out to me? Tell the people to get moving!" Exodus 14:15

"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith." Hebrews 12:1-2





Episode 5: Fighting For Those In Need

Discussion following the sermon from 3/3/2024

 

Poor…Prisoner…Widow(er)…Grieving…Victim…Hungry…Orphan…Disabled…Depressed


Afterward Jesus returned to Jerusalem for one of the Jewish holy days. Inside the city, near the Sheep Gate, was the pool of Bethesda...Crowds of sick people—blind, lame, or paralyzed—lay on the porches. One of the men lying there had been sick for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him and knew he had been ill for a long time, he asked, 'Would you like to get well?' 'I can't, sir,' the sick man said, 'for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water bubbles up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me.' Jesus told him, 'Stand up, pick up your mat, and walk!' Instantly, the main was healed! He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking! But this miracle happened on the Sabbath, so the Jewish leaders objected. They said to the man who was cured, 'You can't work on the Sabbath! The law doesn't allow you to carry that sleeping mat!' But he replied, 'The man who healed me told me, 'Pick up your mat and walk.' 'Who said such a thing as that?' they demanded...But afterward Jesus found him in the Temple and told him, 'Now you are well; so stop sinning, or something even worse may happen to you.' Then the man went and told the Jewish leaders that it was Jesus who had healed him.'" John 5:1-12, 14-15 (NLT)


 1. We observe compassionately.

"Afterward Jesus returned to Jerusalem for one of the Jewish holy days. Inside the city, near the Sheep Gate, was the pool of Bethesda...Crowds of sick people—blind, lame, or paralyzed—lay on the porches. One of the men lying there had been sick for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him and knew he had been ill for a long time..." John 5:1-6

 2.  We communicate candidly.

"...he asked him, 'Would you like to get well?' 'I can't, sir' the sick man said, 'for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water bubbles up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me. Jesus told him, 'Stand up, pick up your mat, and walk!' Instantly, the man was healed! He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking!" John 5:6-8

 3.  We follow-up continually.

"But afterward Jesus found him in the Temple and told him, 'Now you are well; so stop sinning, or something even worse may happen to you.' Then the man went and told the Jewish leaders that it was Jesus who had healed him." John 5:14-15





Episode 4: Fighting For An Awesome Family

Discussion following the sermon from 2/25/2024

 

"The wicked die and disappear, but the family of the godly stands firm." Proverbs 12:7

"Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock." Matthew 7:24-25


Six Priorities Of A Strong Family:

 1. Commitment.

"Hear the word of the LORD, O people of Israel! The LORD has brought charges against you, saying: 'There is no faithfulness, no kindness, no knowledge of God in your land. You make vows and break them; you kill and steal and commit adultery. There is violence everywhere—one murder after another. That is why your land is in mourning, and everyone is wasting away. Even the wild animals, the birds of the sky, and the fish of the sea are disappearing." Hosea 4:1-3

 2.  Time Together.

"See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil." Ephesians 5:15-16

 3.  Appreciation.

"You need to know, friends, that thanking God over and over for you is not only a pleasure; it’s a must. We have to do it. Your faith is growing phenomenally; your love for each other is developing wonderfully. Why, it’s only right that we give thanks." 2 Thessalonians 1:3

 4.  Communication.

"Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them." Ephesians 4:29

 5.  Coping Skills.

"Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help…A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken." Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

 6.  Spiritual Health.

"…But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD." Joshua 24:15





Episode 3: Fight For Your Kids

Discussion following the sermon from 2/18/2024

 

"Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. 'Honor your father and mother.' This is the first commandment with a promise: If you honor your father and mother, 'things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.' Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.'" Ephesians 6:1-4


Four Imperatives For Parents:

 1. Find forgiveness for myself.

"Peter replied, 'Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. This promise is to you, to your children…'" Acts 2:38-39

 2.  Focus on my fellowship with my father.

"All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ." Ephesians 1:3-5

 3.  Follow God's parental lead.

"Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children." Ephesians 5:1

Key words to remember: Affection. Direction. Correction.

"It’s the child he loves that he disciplines; the child he embraces, he also corrects." Hebrews 12:6

 4.  Find ways to fully demonstrate God's love to my family.

"Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions." 1 John 3:18




Episode 2: Fighting To Stay In Love

Discussion following the sermon from 2/11/2024

 

"Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another. Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ. The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. So just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership, wives should likewise submit to their husbands. Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor—since they’re already “one” in marriage." Ephesians 5:21-28 (MSG)



 1. Keep stepping toward godliness.

"Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had." Philippians 2:4-5

 2.  Keep stepping toward servanthood.

"But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many." Matthew 20:26-28

 3.  Keep stepping toward honor.

"Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other." Romans 12:10

 4.  Keep stepping toward enjoyment.

"…I came so they can have real and eternal life, more and better life than they ever dreamed of." John 10:10






Episode 1: The Struggle Is Real

Discussion following the sermon from 2/4/2024

 

"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." Ephesians 6:10-12



 1. Get angry over the destruction.

"They said to me, 'Things are not going well for those who returned to the province of Judah. They are in great trouble and disgrace. The wall of Jerusalem has been torn down, and the gates have been destroyed by fire.' When I heard this, I sat down and wept. In fact, for days I mourned, fasted, and prayed to the God of heaven." Nehemiah 1:3-4

 2.  Get ready for the battle.

"Be prepared. You’re up against far more than you can handle on your own. Take all the help you can get, every weapon God has issued, so that when it’s all over but the shouting you’ll still be on your feet. Truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation are more than words. Learn how to apply them. You’ll need them throughout your life. God’s Word is an indispensable weapon. In the same way, prayer is essential in this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out." Ephesians 6:13-18

 3.  Get focused on the true enemy.

"Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour." 1 Peter 5:8 

 4.  Get excited for the victory.

"No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love." Romans 8:37-38